You’ve learned how to negotiate, fight better, change bad behaviors, even laugh more. Why haven’t they brought the change you really want in your marriage?
Here’s the answer: you don’t build or even repair a marriage with bunch of techniques. To have a fulfilling, enduring marriage, you must replace what is often missing at the core: true emotional connectedness. Much of how we live our lives today wars against true connectedness. The result? We think we are “connected” with others, even our spouse, but deep down we are terribly lonely.
What does the Hold Me Tight program do to help?
Hold Me Tight helps to build emotional responsiveness – the “glue” that holds relationships together. You’ll have Seven Conversations which will help build the pillars of a connected relationship:
- Accessibility – being able to really reach each other, to hear and know their needs.
- Responsiveness – becoming able to respond emotionally.
- Engagement – truly valuing each other and staying close.
Most of our marital and relational problems occur because one or more of these pillars or “needs” is unmet. When we are inaccessible, unresponsive or disengaged, it is no wonder that everyday problems with money, personality differences, sex and parenting can mushroom into endless disagreements – making us think we are mismatched or incompatible – and causing us to lose hope.
Hold Me Tight builds a strong bond of love and security so that differences are handled together – as differences – not as right or wrong, with winners and losers. So when you work through these everyday problems, your relationship – and the emotional bond – actually becomes stronger.
The Hold Me Tight workshop :
- Lets you learn as a group but practice privately as couples. Trained professionals guide you as you build these key relational bonds.
- Gives you two days of steady learning and practice to get you headed in the right direction.
- Builds on the Hold Me Tight book, which you will receive in advance and will use as a reference afterward, as you practice and reinforce what you’ve learned.
- Connects you with knowledgeable professionals for follow up consultations if desired
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Next Workshop:
Friday May 4 - Sunday May 6, 2012
Camp at Cannon Hill, Englesville Rd., Boyertown, PA 19512
Space is Limited
The Camp at Cannon Hill is a newly renovated retreat and reception hall, located behind Boyertown Community Park on Englesville Road. The campground includes a spacious, scenic lodge, outdoor chapel and camping facilities. The lodge is perfectly suited for the Hold Me Tight workshop with ample space for group and private interaction.